When Someone Is Unkind
A simple tool to help children talk about unkind behaviour with their parents and carers
For Parents and Carers
This tool uses simple words and pictures to help your child talk about their experiences with unkind behaviour. Sit with them as they fill it out, and help them by reading the questions and explaining the pictures. This isn't a test - it's a way to start important conversations and plan how to help your child feel safe.
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What's your name?
How do you feel?
Click on all the feelings that match how you feel:
What happened?
Tell us what happened (your grown-up can help you write):
Where did it happen?
Who can help you?
Click on all the people who can help you:
Where do you feel safe?
Click on all the places where you feel safe:
What makes you feel better?
Click on things that help you feel better when you're upset: